Introducing; How Deep?

By: Khayla Doby

Hello Darlings, welcome to How Deep—the place where sex, style, and individuality collide. First, let’s get one thing clear: we’re not just here to tell our sweet misguided straight girls to ditch the gremlins they’ve been pursuing (though, seriously, consider it). No, we’re here to bring sex back, unapologetically and in full technicolor.

In 2025, it’s pathetic that the cultural conversation around sex can still feel so...vanilla. And no shade to the vanilla crowd—it’s classic, comforting, and has its place. But as a Black, queer, polyamorous woman who mostly dates straight cis men (I know, pray for me), my version of pleasure lives outside those lines. From embracing kinks to finding confidence in my deliciously juicy body, I’ve spent plenty of time navigating a world that doesn’t always leave room for the bold, the kinky, or the unconventional. Add in the challenge of a fashion world that often feels at odds with queer and bigger bodies—where’s the space for those of us who want to feel sexy our way, not just how the trends and algorithms dictate?

Here, we’re diving into the fun, the messy, and the transformative—answering your sex and relationship questions, while helping you explore how sex and style intersect in your life. From latex and lingerie to polyamorous dating, and queer sex, this is about showing you the endless ways to own who you are and what you want.

Sex, dating, and relationships are too central to our lives to not approach them with honesty, curiosity, and audacity. So let’s talk—about confidence, kinks, the power of individual style, and yes, pleasure.

This is your space to rediscover what sexy means for you. Let’s go.